The problem with human beings is that we don’t do those things we know will be healthier and more effective for us. Rather we do what our emotions or our past habits lead us to do.
For example, my book Be the Hero can be summarized, “Think positively. Act positively. You will be happier and more effective.” Few people would disagree. The challenge isn’t in understanding or agreeing. It is in acting in accordance with these ideas. And not just when things are going well, but when facing the big challenges and frightening opportunities that come your way.
The same is true for diet and exercise, quitting smoking, being open to feedback, speaking up, holding your tongue, not being intimidated, and any number of other changes people try to make. The challenge isn’t understanding and agreeing with the new behavior. It is implementing that behavior with consistency.
One solution is the mantra – a simple statement that acts as a rallying cry for you and anyone else who is sharing the change you are making. Mantras work because they
- remind you of the change
- focus your attention
- crowd out unhelpful thoughts
- simplify your actions
Mantras aren’t the only systems to help people change. But they are a great starting point. For a mantra in action, here’s one of my favorites.